FOUND A GOOD FISH GUY!!!!
Internal parasites. It is definitely not ich! It is something internal, it is coming out in the fins cuz that is easier than the scales. It is a long lived one. I got PrazioPro and some medicated food. I'm going to bring the salt to 1ppt. I hope this round works.
Now that I think about it, I did everything I could for external and nothing worked, this is a slow life cycled internal one that is not causing to much harm to the fish. The grills are great the they are hungry. I'm so happy to have a better idea of what I'm up against.
Thanks soooooo much for all your help. If you guys didn't keep me searching for something other than ich I would have never figured this out.
Thanks again!!! I'll keep you posted on how treatment goes