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Old 09-29-2005   #11 (permalink)
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so stephen's girlfriend doesn't use it to try to get me banned......
George, I don't know you, but you seem to act as if you know Stephen through your numerous comments about or towards him.

For the record, Stephen has been married to the same lovely and sweet lady for the past 30 years.

If you have an issue with him, how about emailing him.

If I am not mistaken, you joined Koiphen on or about the 29th of July this year and were on for less than a month.

In that time, all but a hand full of posts were in regards to the Bakki Shower debate.

It seems to me as if you were looking for a fight. This is a hobby. Everyone has their own way - some may prove to work for one person that do not work for another - so be it. Is that a reason to take every chance you can to direct personal attacks toward another?
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Old 09-29-2005   #12 (permalink)
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over the years, i have been driven away from chat boards because of this type of thing. there is no need for it, it serves no purpose.
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Old 09-29-2005   #13 (permalink)
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I need to ask before I join the joy out here, are there any rules? Or is this a free for all where I can finally put this punk in his place?I need know before I post out here, so stephen's girlfriend doesn't use it to try to get me banned......
George,

If you've got a valid point to make, then this is the subforum to make it in. Please don't let it degrade into insulting people or their wives, girlfriends, family memebers, etc. If you've got something particulalry vituperative to say, I would highly recommend either private mail or the PM system.
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Old 09-29-2005   #14 (permalink)
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LOL...I think valarc is who junglejim was referring to as "his Girlfriend"...sort of cute, don't ya think...as he mentioned Val's Boyfriend just a day or two ago...
Boy has Val gonna have some explaining to do...as i am sure Junglejim knows all about Val's love life.....
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Old 09-29-2005   #15 (permalink)
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Ditto Dick's comments. Everything tends to get out of hand between people that think they know each other but in reality don't, other than through these boards. It's also too easy to get drawn into these kind of debates and then become part of the problem.

We all like KOi, we all agree with somethings and don't with others. Live and let live.
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Old 09-29-2005   #16 (permalink)
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Tail of the teaching Elephant

Sometimes we need to think about how things come across from the other persons perspective, before you blast me saying something like I was making "suttle jabs" at someone, think about it, ask me about it in private, and mabye realize that I wasent. Im no literary wizard, and sometimes I choose words poorly, but dont mistake that for malicious intent...

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Once upon a time, in a university far away, there was a wacky science instructor who longed to introduce her students to the teaching elephant. She knew this was a Herculean task, because the teaching elephant was a large, amorphous, and unpredictable beast. After many semesters of failed attempts, she decided she would simply have to bring a real, live teaching elephant to class. Because it was so large and unpredictable that seemed impossible. However, just before the beginning of a new semester, she had an idea. “Aha ha,” she said. “If I can’t bring a teaching elephant to class, I’ll bring my students to the teaching elephant.” and so she began to plan for the first day of class.


Now the wacky science instructor knew that meeting a teaching elephant for the first time can be a bewildering, even a troubling, experience. As she also wanted to show her students how important the senses are to learning, she gave her students blindfolds and had them cover their eyes. She then selected the six wisest students and placed each in front of a different part of the elephant. Each student was asked to use their sense of touch to explore the elephant and to describe it to their classmates.



The first blindfolded student ran her fingers along the tail and said, “Ah, a teaching elephant must be a small snake.” The next, who touched the trunk of the elephant, said, “No it is a very big snake.” The third student had hold of an ear and said, “You are both wrong. It has wings like an enormous bat!” The fourth wise student attempted to encircle the elephant’s belly with his arms, exclaiming, “No, no, it must be a horse with great girth!” The fifth student placed her hand on the elephant’s broad forehead and said, “We are all deceived. This is no animal but a wall!” “Now we’re getting somewhere,” shouted the sixth student who was feeling the thick leg. “But this object must be a tree.” Some versions of this tale end with the students throwing their books at each other; another has the students beating their teacher senseless. But there is also an ending which goes like this . . . .





The blindfolded students became so puzzled by their differing experiences; they were convinced their instructor had tricked them. To test this hypothesis, each student kept his or her hand on the part they had first touched, and maneuvered their other hand along the elephant’s body until it met the hand of another student. By doing this, the blindfolded students discovered that although each part of the teaching elephant was different, together they did form a real living creature. And although the wise students were still unable to behold the complete shape of the teaching elephant, they agree that it was a marvelous beast indeed.
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Old 09-29-2005   #17 (permalink)
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This is exactly what happens and why I wish I hadn't posted. I never said you were making malicious jabs at anyone, just that these things easily get out of hand. Koi Boards should be about Koi. By all means argue and on NI I enjoy some of the insults that can fly around, but always kept to the strength of ones feelings about the subject - Koi.
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I wasent talking about you Tom. I dont even know you. It was just a general statement, myself being guilty of it as well.

Sorry if it came across otherwise.

This is how little misunderstandings start huge arguements.

Its like stepping on someones toes and not even knowing that those toes were there Walking on eggshells comes to mind.
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Hey Greg, I have beginners luck, there ain't no way I am touching that elephant blind-folded!
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Even with the emoticons, its so hard to convey how you are feeling using just words. If I talked to people in person, they would not have the same impression, I am sure of it.
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